
The first time I saw Kim in church I knew we would be friends. I went up to her after church and introduced myself. (She doesn't remember that :> ) She says I invited her to an enrichment (I kinda remember that :> ) Over time our visits with each other became more and more frequent. I was very happy about it. That I do remember! Our friendship grew and grew until we literally would call everyday to see what the events were and how that would fit into our lives. We became very close friends and still are.
Kim's friendship to me has meant a lot for several reasons! After I had Kyah, I was struggling with adjusting. There were days that I wouldn't even get dressed out of my pajamas, or cook dinner, or take a shower, or pick anything up. This was about the time that we started doing more and more things together. Kim was probably the main reason that I was able to find a way out of this rut that I was in. She gave me a reason to get up and get dressed. I had things to look forward to doing during the day. She helped me to be a better mother, wife, and person just by being my friend. I'm eternally grateful for that.
When we would go and do things, Kim was such a great help! She would take Kyah if Gage had to go to the bathroom and I wouldn't even have to ask. She would grab a bag from me if she noticed I needed help. She would share Grant's lunch with Gage if I wasn't as prepared that particular day. She was the friend that I desperately needed.
When it came time for Kim to move to Alabama, I was crushed! We pretended like nothing was changing and kept doing our daily activities. Then one day I went over to her house and she had packed up a lot of things that she was worried about the movers packing. I couldn't ignore the inevitable anymore. I started crying and pretty much couldn't stop. Mark came home from work and saw the situation and asked if he should leave us alone. Kind of funny. The day that she left was more of the same. I hung out while the truck was being loaded until it was time to say goodbye. Pretty much we balled in the street, told each other how much we loved the other, and drove away. (I am now crying while writing this)
So, I had a chance to drive to Portland to reunite with Kim and her son Grant. I forgot to mention up above how much our children love each other! I think Grant was probably Gage's first real friend. They are two peas in a pod! When we got to Portland, the boys could hardly contain their excitement! Gage hopped out of the car and the kids hugged and Gage kissed Grant on the cheek. Kim got a great picture of this that she posted on
her blog. We went to the zoo, ate pizza, and hung out at her sister's apt. (Thanks Diana!) The boys were their usual selves. In Kim's words, "they played, sometimes great, sometimes not so great." So true. I think the reason for this is because they are just like each other in many ways. But they really do love each other. Gage has often mentioned that we should move to Alabama! We got to show each other our new lenses and talk about photography. Kim is really good!

It was a wonderful day that was very reminiscent of pre-Alabama. And of course what would a goodbye be without a few tears. I did pretty good, until I got into my car! Then I was worried about driving because I couldn't see. Luckily I was able to gain control shortly thereafter! The main point is: We had a great time hanging out with our friends! It was so good to see Kim and Grant! We will miss them terribly AGAIN, but can't wait until May when they will come back for a visit! WE LOVE YOU!
Boys being silly

Kyah snuggling with Kim

One of the things I love about Grant is how excited he gets!!

I have a thing for hippos

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Kim being helpful, see her hand. I love that her hand is in this picture.

Best Buddies
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